Which is it? Is He A Feminine Husband Or… Are You A Masculine Wife?
Many women complain about their feminine husband. So, what could be triggering husbands to take the feminine role in the relationship?
As you may be aware, western societies often pressure men to become more sensitive, while women are nurtured to become more independent. So, is it surprising to see feminine husbands and masculine wives? If you feel that your husband is becoming feminine, it’s time to step back and analyze the dynamics of your whole relationship.
Ask yourself the following questions?
- Is he the one who gets emotional and overwhelmed with problems while you are the one who has to come up with the solutions?
- Could it be that you are somehow adopting the masculine role encouraging him to adopt the feminine?
- Could it be the other way around?
There aren’t simple answers to this complex dynamic, but one thing we can say for sure is:
When one of the partners takes a role in the relationship, the other partner unconsciously takes the opposite. If you’re a very feminine woman and remain the same in your marriage, your husband will likely become very masculine. The reverse could also happen, if for some reason you become masculine in your behavior, as a reaction, he would become feminine in his. People really don’t realize this, but our actions cause an equal and opposite reaction on our partner.
Men becoming more nice and sensitive and women becoming more independent and strong facilitate this interchange in their roles in the relationship. The question here would be if you are happy with this new arrangement.
If you feel uncomfortable having a feminine husband, do your part and get back to your feminine nature. Don’t worry about trying to convince him of any change in your relationship, just be feminine and he will become masculine, it is just nature!
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