The Girl Next Door – Be Careful. Infidelity Beckons.
The girl next door is pretty. She is a good neighbor. She is easy to work with. You offer to help her every now and then. Your wife knows this but she trusts you to do the right thing.
Be careful how close you get while helping that girl next door. Infidelity may just be closer than you think.
Right now, stop and analyze your real intentions. Why are you so particular about helping this girl? Are you getting attracted to her more than is necessary?
You can help your neighbor as often as you wish. There is no harm in that. But as a married man you owe your wife 100% allegiance. Anything that will threaten your marriage must be dispatched with immediate effect. That also goes for any unwholesome or shady relationship outside your marriage.
Is this false alarm?
I assure you it’s not. Many men who fell to infidelity and started a secret affair didn’t initially plan to go that far. They simply wanted friendship. Friendship graduated into affection. Affection turned into holding, hugs, kisses, love making.
The truth is . . . you never know with women. A simple neighborly friendship with the girl next door can suddenly take a sharp bend and become a sizzling secret affair.
This is not a joke. There are countless real-life examples that prove me right.
Most infidelity cases start with a genuine desire to help.
For example, you have a pretty neighbor (she doesn’t have to be pretty to capture you) who needs help. She comes to you and you gladly offer to assist her.
She returns later to thank you and even presents a champagne to your wife to show her appreciation.
You become better neighbors. She visits occasionally. You find her interesting. You soon begin to see an exciting part of her you hadn’t noticed before.
You’re getting close. The girl next door is catching up with you.
Occasionally you stop by at her place to see how she is doing. After some time, your visits become more regular. You begin to notice how tender she is. Oh, she even has a better sense of humor than you imagined.
One day you catch yourself noticing more than you should.
You suddenly realize she has better curves than your wife. She’s slimmer and trendier. She has the physique of a model. She has everything a man needs in just the right place and in the right size.
Your wife . . . if only your wife was just as slime! . . . Or just as beautiful!
You’re going. In fact, you’re gone. The girl next door has sunk her hooks in you.
It’s time to stop. You know you should stop. But you rationalize it away by persuading your senses with the falsehood that you only want to help. What’s so wrong with helping out, you ask?
So you continue to help.
You walk into her house one day and you find the girl next door crying. She has emotional breakdown. Her fiance just broke up with her or she just lost her job. She cries long and hard. You console her but she refuses to be consoled.
You hold her to stop her crying. She holds you back for support. And you keep holding each other. And . . .
The rest is history.
You shouldn’t let yourself get this far. You risk losing everything you have if you do.
A man and a woman are like two oppositely charged magnet. When they are far apart, nothing happens. When they come too close, something snaps. This happens so fast that many people, male or female, crash before they realize it. That is the very reason extra marital affair is so rampart.
A married man should not desire any other woman. You should not work alone with any woman other than your wife. The atmosphere can easily get charged and you may lose your sense of morality.
If your female neighbor needs help, help her through your wife.
Make no mistake about it.
The girl next door is dangerous. No matter how beautiful and innocent she looks, she is poison to your life and your marriage.
Be careful. Infidelity beckons.
It’s your life, it’s your future. Do the right thing.